1.死去的人在别处生活着，穿着我们记忆中的那件衣服——西蒙·范·布伊《爱，始于冬季》

2.悲伤有时是一种沉默但顽固的疯狂——西蒙·范·布伊《爱，始于冬季》

3.等你到了一定的年龄，彼此的过去已经不重要，那些曾经令你无比在乎的东西就好像半途而退的潮汐一般似乎没有了提及的必要。这个世上没有命运这回事，同时也没有意外。——西蒙·范·布伊《爱，始于冬季》

4.孤独和抑郁的关系就好像游泳和溺水。——西蒙·范·布伊《爱，始于冬季》

5.因为，无论有多少经历，人们始终得做好准备重新开始直到轮到别人做好失去我们的准备，我们才彻底摆脱了爱的痛苦、依赖所付出的代价。——这是我们为爱与依赖所付出的代价——西蒙・凡・布伊《因为爱》。

6.每一首歌都是一段记忆追寻，每一场雨都在同一时刻触碰这个城市每一处。——西蒙・凡・布伊《因为爱》。

7.我们所接触的人影响我们自身，这是真的。但是，我们未曾接触过的人也会影响我们，有时候影响更大，因为我们那么生动地想象过他们。 —— 西蒙・凡・布伊《因为愛》。

8.if you're not here, why are you everywhere? —— 西蒙•范•布瓦（Simon Van Booy） "Love Begins in Winter"

9.age is like tilling the soil; the essence of things will be gradually dug up as time goes on but only when we have reached a point where we are powerless to change anything do we gain wisdom; it seems as though we are living life backwards —— 西몬•万博 “Love Begins in Winter”

10.If there were such a thing as marriage, it would already have happened: at the airport on the way to get someone; or in a gray dawn bedroom where one person stares at another person they love; or two strangers waiting for an invisible bus in the rain, each holding a heavy shopping bag and wondering what all this has to do with them anyway — that moment when nothing is said yet everything has been understood — these moments are always silent — Westley McNair.

11.no one can understand why he didn't scream perhaps he was afraid of being punished - fear of disappointing children is their deepest terror.

12.to some people life is just breaking through walls while others build walls around themselves - Simon van Booy

13.then I suddenly understood I had been afraid of not existing even after death but that's not true because even if we don't exist anymore everything else just keeps going on - Simon van Booy "Because Love"

14.childhoods terrifying because grown-ups make kids feel incomplete and ignorant telling them they know nothing while instinct tells them they know everything so maybe most people commit this deadliest crime every day without noticing - Simon van Booy "Love Begins in Winter"

15.there's another kind of self-punishment going back looking for that person you thought was there but isn't - Simon van Booy "Love Begins in Winter"

16.even if you've only loved once your bad enough so why not keep loving my life is an undelivered letter memory like actors playing out lives One wave of sadness almost makes me unable to move it's both shattering and perfect pain 17.I believe lies and deception destroy love but also protect and construct love Love needs imagination more than experience 18.people assign too much hope to pairings thinking they solve eternal human fears (a magic bullet) thus disappointment loneliness hurt follows inevitably many singles longingly await marriage viewing it like lottery winners view big prizes everyone feels let down by those who leave them behind except now no one cares any longer 19.trusting others harder than being trusted 20.Love begins early ends late We appear then disappear In this process something appears then leaves us behind