黄怒波：自然中的狼性人生，无需绝望

文/黄怒波

说实话，我从小到现在就从来没有绝望过。俗话说得好“人生没有过不去的坎，只要你肯走。”这句话反映了我从小至今的一种性格。

我小时候说起来还是挺惨的，我的父亲是因为反分子罪在监狱中的，那时的我才2岁。当时是阶级斗争的年代，你要是反分子的子女的话，那么你就被扣上猪狗不如的大帽子，连底层都不如。我在街道上跟人打架，如果是我给别人孩子打了，别人有爸爸来了把我抱住，就是把我的头打破了我也没办法。但是别人把我打了，怎么办呢？我就要今天半夜到你们家把你玻璃砸了，除非你打死我，不然明天我还去砸，直到把他砸怕为止。

小时候的我就是这样一种性格，狼一样的性格。当下的年轻朋友们可能不太知道关于那个年代的事情，那个时代教给了我不屈服，不绝望，所以你看我表面温文尔雅其实内心中有很大的狼性在里面。我们这代人就是这么走过来的，而我的人生中从来没有绝望过。

人的生活需要坚持

有的朋友会问我一个问题，“一个人最应该沉淀的特性是什么？”I give him an answer very simple, just two words, persistence! Because I have always had a point of view, that is to say, doing things is both difficult and easy. I do business has experienced so many things, suddenly one day look back, the company suddenly grew up, you will think about how it was every day preparing for today's results. Just like today the company prosperous, you suddenly reached the top of the wealth or food chain, this is exactly what your perseverance and patience resulted in. Later I said over a sentence," Either make it happen or fail ,you can only know it doesn't work when you've failed." Many entrepreneurs through anticipation and planning say "I'll fail tomorrow," then they don't go further with it. But for me it's quite the opposite.

I take an example , originally able to climb 7200 meters high mountain when I didn't drink any alcohol every day went to gym room exercise. After climbing over 7200 meters at body check doctor told me malnutrition everyday drinking led my body slowly getting fat again trying to go gym room but couldn't get in anymore.( Famous saying www.lz13.cn) As long as a person loses motivation this person is hard to overcome himself. So I decided to exercise daily from six o'clock in the morning persistently exercising until my body quickly recovered to good condition.

One billion people have nine thousand nine hundred million people who cannot persevere even if they buy gym cards most people can not persist down till now this concerns a man's willpower problem actually success often close us very near also easy important thing you must have determination beat yourself.

Do something useful for others

Is life a self-made process? I think not necessarily; life should be interesting instead of boring process before watching an algorithm about human life says ordinary effective life lasts only 70 years after age fifty basically no creativity left called guard city among twenty thirty years time half time we sleep now only fifteen year left out five six year real working time if someone does nothing create anything during these five six years what meaning living still has sometimes we might change way thinking what living for? Do we become evil because there was Li Gang's dad? When we see no future let us try create fight our own future that may be our pursuit positive value outlook on life.

Finally let me say that while striving to be good at oneself pursuing positive values meanwhile definitely strive be useful other people learn use children parents friends society alike.