他在背后悄悄地改变了自己的行为，试图用这些小动作来掩盖内心的不安。1.他的关注 suddenly shift to you, focusing on aspects he once ignored. This is a subconscious attempt at self-justification, making him feel slightly better about his betrayal.

He starts buying gifts for you out of the blue, despite not being known for his romantic or indulgent nature.

His mood swings become more frequent and irrational; he finds fault in everything you do. This is a defense mechanism, as if proving your "mistakes" would somehow balance out his own guilt.

You begin to sense something off about him but can't quite put your finger on it – trust your instincts!

When confronted or even playfully teased by you, he rushes to break things off without any meaningful communication or problem-solving suggestions.

He becomes overly enthusiastic when discussing your trips away from home – whether it's excitement over helping with packing or exaggerated disappointment at your departure.

He grows distant and aloof without any apparent reason for the change in behavior.

His tastes abruptly shift; new music, movies, books interest him now that never did before – perhaps even celebrity gossip or animals enter his radar unexpectedly.

A newfound confidence appears in him if there's no obvious catalyst such as a promotion at work; this could be due to validation from an extramarital affair source.

10.His criticism of you becomes direct: "I hate this..." and so forth.

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